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La soledad compañera de la vida

La soledad compañera de la vida :
La soledad es un sentimiento que nos llena el alma de un silencio frío y oscuro si no la sabemos encauzar. Hay rostros surcados de arrugas, de piel marchita, de labios sin frescura, de ojos empequeñecidos, turbios y apagados que nos hablan por si solos de la soledad. Si sus voces nos llegaran nos dirían de su cansancio, de su miedo, pero sobre todo de su soledad….

Pero no hace falta que seamos ancianos para que en la vida nos acompañe la soledad.

La soledad del sacerdote, aún los más jóvenes, con sus votos de obediencia, pobreza y castidad, pero a veces es más dura la soledad de su propio corazón, que aunque ayudado por la Gracia de Dios no deja de ser humano. Tienen que consolar a los seres que llegan hasta ellos con sus penas, con sus problemas pero su corazón no puede aferrarse a ninguna criatura de la tierra y a veces se sienten solos, muy solos, tan solo acompañados de una gran soledad

La soledad en la adolescencia, duele profundamente por nueva, por incomprensible…Los padres se están divorciando, se quiere a los dos, se necesita a los dos, pero para ellos parece que no existe ese ser que no acaba de comprender y que está muy solo. Ellos tienen sus pleitos, su mal humor. La mamá siempre llorando, el papá alzando la voz… para él nada… tal vez sientan hasta que haya nacido. Si se divorcian será un problema ¿Qué será de él?¡Qué gran soledad, qué amarga soledad!

Las monjas misioneras, los misioneros, lejos de sus seres queridos y en tierras extrañas.

Y la soledad en algunos matrimonios, esa soledad que ahoga, que asfixia…que como dice el poeta: «es más grande la soledad de dos en compañía». El hombre de grandes negocios, empresario importante, magnate en la sociedad que parece que lo tiene todo pero que en el fondo vive una gran soledad.

La soledad de las grandes luminarias siempre rodeadas de personas y siempre solas… Las esposas de los pilotos, de los marinos, de los médicos, saben de una gran soledad y ellos a su vez, en medio del cumplimiento del deber, también están solos. La soledad de las personas que han perdido al compañero o compañera de su vida, ese quedarse como partido en dos porque falta la otra mitad, ese no saber cómo vivir esas horas, ahora tan vacías, tan tristes, tan solas…

Si no convertimos esa soledad en compañía para otros seres quizá, más solos aún que nosotros mismos, si no llenamos ese vacío y esas horas con el fuego de nuestro amor para los que nos rodean y nos necesitan, esa soledad acabará por aniquilarnos, ahogándonos en el pozo de las más profunda depresión.

En realidad todos los seres humanos estamos solos. La soledad está en nuestras vidas pero hay que saber amarla. Si le tenemos miedo, si no la amamos y no aprendemos a vivir con ella, ella nos destruirá. Si le sabemos dar su verdadero sentido, ella nos enriquecerá y será la compañera perfecta para nuestro espíritu. Con ella podremos entrar en nuestra alma, con ella podremos hablar con nuestros más íntimos sentimientos.

Ella nos ayudará, ella, la soledad bien amada y deseada a veces, nos llevará al encuentro de nuestra propia identidad y luego al mejor conocimiento de Dios, que llenará nuestras vidas porque El es todo amor.

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